Wednesday, September 29, 2021

Shana's sacrament talk October 31, 2021

Happy Halloween! Halloween is one of my favorite holidays! If you know the McGavocks, you know that we are no strangers to a friendly prank! Halloween is a special time when we like to have lighthearted spooky fun. We enjoy a good jump scare or a frightening haunted house…. But on most other days we find ourselves actively pursuing quite the opposite. We seek peace and joy in our lives. As followers of Jesus Christ, we know that he is the source of peace and joy. He is after all, the Prince of Peace.

 

Today I want to share some thoughts on Elder Jeffrey R. Holland’s talk from October’s General Conference titled “Our greatest possession”. He began by sharing a story - that I will paraphrase - from the New Testament about a rich young ruler who asks Jesus, “what shall I do that I may inherit eternal life?” After reviewing a long list of commandments that this young ruler had kept, Jesus told him to sell all his belongings, give the proceedings to the poor, take up his cross, and follow him. To that, the rich young ruler went away sorrowing because, the scriptures say, “he had great possessions.”

 

When we think of this young ruler’s “possessions”, of course the Savior was speaking of his temporal belongings - his gold and his riches…. But in the phrase, “take up the cross and follow me” we see that the Savior was asking him to forsake more than just temporal possessions. This young ruler likely possessed worldly praise or popularity among his peers. He likely possessed a relatively comfortable lifestyle, and being a ruler he certainly possessed social status and power that was highly desirable… So in addition to his gold and his riches, Jesus was asking him to forsake all of those things and make HIM his greatest possession.

 

As we learn of this young ruler, do we perhaps see a little bit of ourselves in him? In addition to OUR worldly things, do we perhaps also enjoy some of these same OTHER possessions?

 

Elder Holland teaches quote “With or without riches, each of us is to come to Christ with the same uncompromised commitment to His gospel that was expected of this young man.” End quote.

 

So with that in mind I ask you to ponder these questions:

 

- What are some of YOUR great possessions?

 

- How can YOU take up your cross and more fully follow Jesus Christ?

 

- In short, How can YOU make HIM your greatest possession?

 

Elder Holland assures us quote “when difficult things are asked of us, even things contrary to the longings of our heart, remember that the loyalty we pledge to the cause of Christ is to be the supreme devotion of our lives.”

 

He goes on to demonstrate what life is like in a world where Heavenly Father and his son Jesus Christ are people’s greatest possessions. This demonstration is taken from the Book of Mormon, from the lives of the people living in the Americas, after the Savior was resurrected and visited them. Quote:

 

“And it came to pass that there was no contention among all the people in all the land because of the love of God which did dwell in the hearts of the people. And there were no envyings, nor strifes, nor any manner of lasciviousness, and surely there could not be a happier people among all the people that had been created by the hand of God. There were no robbers, nor murderers, neither were there Lamanites, nor any manner of -ites, but they were in one, the children of Christ, and heirs to the kingdom of God.” End quote.

 

Just a quick back story on the phrase “nor any manner of -ites” - In these times, people were often labeled in different groups based on their lineage or where they were from. The names of these groups usually ended in “-ites” such as Nephites, Lamanites and Zoramites to name a few.  We see this practice in our day also, as people are often grouped together according to their political beliefs, races, social standings etc… Although these things were still very much part of who they were, the people were ONE in their love of God.

 

Although this is the world that we long for and strive to create, the world in our day more closely resembles what the world was like in Lehi’s time. Lehi was the first prophet in the Book of Mormon. He and his family lived in Jerusalem during the first year of the reign of Zedekiah. During this time in Jerusalem there was wickedness and open rebellion against God and his commandments. Those that lived the gospel were mocked. While it appeared that Lehi and his family lived comfortably by worldly standards, they stood alone in their commitment to keeping the commandments.

 

It was around this time that God commanded Lehi to take his family and depart from Jerusalem because they were no longer safe. In this moment, Lehi had a choice, and it is a choice that we all make each day. What was HIS greatest possession?

 

Was it his comfortable life in Jerusalem with his home and his belongings…. Or was it God? Did he truly love God enough to do this difficult thing that was being asked of him?

 

Yes, he did. The scriptures explain, He left behind his house, and the land of his inheritance, and his gold and his silver and his precious things, and took nothing with him, save it were his family, and provisions, and tents, and they departed into the wilderness.

 

As we read along in the Book of Mormon, we follow Lehi and his family along a difficult 8 year journey of ups and down, challenges and mighty miracles that eventually leads them to the promised land.

 

And whatever became of Jerusalem after they left? In the Old Testament in 2 Kings chapter 25 we learn that about 8 years after Lehi left, wicked king Nebuchadnezzer of Babylon came and besieged Jerusalem. In addition to famine, and much bloodshed, many people were carried captive into Babylon.

 

Is it not interesting that Lehi’s path to the Promised Land is on a nearly identical timeframe as Jerusalem’s path to captivity? His entire course, and the course of his loved ones was changed by this one decision - to make God his greatest possession!

 

Each day we have opportunities in one way or another to make this same choice. We can choose to put our faith in Heavenly Father and his Son Jesus Christ and claim the blessings promised to us or we can treasure up the things of the world and see where that leads us.

 

While the choice is ours to make, and like Lehi, following the Savior may at times require sacrifices….  we are given this wonderful promise in 1 Nephi chapter 1 verse 20:

“I will show unto you that the tender mercies of the Lord are over all those whom he hath chose, because of their faith, to make them mighty even unto the power of deliverance.”

 

So what are some ways that we can make HIM our greatest possession? We can start by striving to be more like him. As we seek to possess Christ-like attributes, we find more joy and direction in our lives. We develop a greater ability to withstand temptation and we can more easily discern what is important in our lives and what is not.

 

Last week at Stake Conference we listened to our Stake leaders each speak one different Christ-like attributes. A few that were mentioned were…. showing love to others, exercising empathy and compassion toward others, mourning with those that mourn, exercising selflessness and engaging in acts of service. It seems that the opportunities to develop Christ-like attributes are almost endless. Striving to become more like the Savior may look a little different for each of us as we prayerfully consider our specific talents, opportunities and stages of life.

 

Isabel, for example, has chosen to serve a full time mission, serving and teaching in Texas. She will soon be putting on a name tag that she will wear for the next 18 month as an official representative of Jesus Christ. This was without doubt, a decision that she made after much prayer and contemplation.

 

Another example - Throughout the years I have seen members of our ward organize service projects and collect donations for local needs such as assisting families affected by fires, helping refugee families resettle, stocking up food banks and cleaning and beautifying our community.

 

These are wonderful examples of making Jesus Christ the center of our lives. Not every effort to become more Christ-like needs to be as grand of a gesture however. Often it is in the small and simple things in our lives that we can make the greatest impact.

 

One example of this was shared In the October 2020 conference, by Sister Michelle D Craig. She spoke of a small but impactful experience she had as she prayed to see others as the Savior did. As she prayed, she asked Heavenly Father these two questions: “what am I doing that I should stop doing” and “what am I not doing that I should start doing?” As she pondered this, she felt impressed to stop looking at her phone when she was waiting in long lines. The next morning she found herself waiting in a long line at the store. Out of habit, she pulled out her phone and then remembered the impression that she had had. She put it away and looked around and saw an elderly man in line ahead of her. She started up a conversation with him and after a few minutes he said, “you know, I haven’t told anyone this but today is my birthday.” Her heart melted for this sweet man alone at the store on his birthday. She wished him a happy birthday and offered a silent prayer of thanks for the impression she had had to put her phone down and be more present.

 

As we consider how we can make Christ the center of our lives, we can start small. Remember…. during Christ’s ministry on earth, between his miraculous moments of healing the sick, raising the dead, or feeding thousands with just a few loaves and fishes, he also sat with those that were lonely, he forgave those that made mistakes, he was selfless with his time, he wept with those that were sad, he prayed for his friends and his enemies, and he served in small and simple ways. During seasons or circumstances when we may not be able to make more grand gestures of devotion to Christ, we can still seek him through studying the scriptures and through prayer, we can offer a kind word or a wave, we can be patient with those that challenge or disappoint us, we can drop off a card or a treat to a friend, we can help a neighbor in need or we can be a listener and a shoulder to lean on when a loved one is struggling.

 

When we show love and serve others the way Christ did, we are showing love and serving God the way Christ did. In Mosiah chapter 2 verse 17 we learn quote:

 

And behold I tell you these things that ye may learn wisdom. That ye may learn that when ye are in the service of your fellow beings, ye are only in the service of your God.”

 

Another way that we can make Christ the MOST important thing in our lives is to be unwaivering in our commitment to keeping his commandments and trust that they are the path to happiness. We live in a time that would suggest that just about anything goes. There is no shortage of voices seeking to persuade us that popularity is the key to happiness, chastity is outdated, or partaking of addictive substances is fun and exciting. Each voice promises greater happiness if we would only loosen up a little, live for the moment or that making sacrifices is unfair. We see this among our peers and especially on social media. Looking to the world for peace or joy will always leave us with an appetite that can never be satisfied. When we are faced with opportunities to choose between the Lord’s plan of happiness or the world’s idea of happiness, we can strive to have the same simple but unwaivering conviction as was mentioned in Joshua 24:15 which says:

 

“Choose ye this day whom ye will serve…. But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord”

 

Following the Savior TRULY IS the path to happiness! While choosing to follow Christ may require us to stand alone at times, I can honestly say that I have never regretted the times that I have chosen faith over fear or temptation. Have the courage to stand for something. When you know what the right choice is, DO IT! Whatever it may be. Choose to follow Christ when you are among your friends and with your families and even in your entertainment.

 

To put it in social media terms, if we can learn to like and follow the Savior and make Him our most important influencer and subscribe to his teachings, even tagging a few friends along the way then we can joyfully partake of all of the blessings he has in store for us. His gifts are free to each that will choose to accept them because he loves us. We simple have to choose it.

 

Elder Holland described it this way quote :

 

Of course we are speaking here of the first great commandment given to the human family – to love God wholeheartedly, without reservation or compromise, that is, with all our heart, might, mind and strength. This love of God is the first great commandment in the universe. But the first great TRUTH in the universe is that God loves us exactly that way – wholeheartedly, without reservation or compromise, with all of HIS heart, might, mind and strength.” End quote.

 

I invite each of you today to ponder how you can make Heavenly Father and his son Jesus Christ your most cherished possession. We can all take inventory of our lives and see where we can improve. As we prayerfully take our efforts to the Lord, he will guide and direct us to know the things we should do.

 

 

 


Monday, February 22, 2021

Mya's Sacrament Talk February 2021 (13 years old)

 MINISTERING TO THE ONE

Hi for those of you that don’t know me, my name is Mya McGavock. I am an 8th grader at Chilton Middle School. I’m really happy to be back to in-person church and to be able to see all of my favorite families again.

 

Today I want to talk to you about ministering to the one. My mom and I were just recently watching a church video on this very topic. It was about a group of men that ministered to one of their friends after his son had passed away. One of the things that stood out to me in this video was that one of the men said, “we knew how to minister to him because we were his friend first.” When we take the time to get to know others around us, we are able to minister to them in more natural and personal ways. As I thought about this, I realized that, that has definitely been the case in my life as well.

 

I have always loved babysitting and I literally LOVE babysitting for all of my favorite families. You know who you are!

 

With permission from the Robisons I would like to share my experience with babysitting for their family. When Kate first asked me if I could babysit, I admit that I was a little nervous. I knew that their oldest son, Trevor didn’t talk and I was worried that I wouldn’t know how to communicate with him. What if he wanted or needed something and I couldn’t understand what he was trying to tell me? But with encouragement from my parents I decided to go ahead and give it a shot. As my visits with the Robisons increased, I got to know Trevor more and more. I learned what he likes and what he doesn’t like and I started understanding how he communicates. Eventually I realized that I was able to recognize HIS wants and needs just as easily as the other kids that communicated verbally. I know that Trevor loves bike rides and spinning things and back scratches and tickles. One day when I was at the store I saw one of those little wire head scratcher things and I thought, “Trevor would LOVE that!” and it put a smile on my face to think about how he would react the next time I went over and I put it on his head.

 

Sometimes at first ministering can feel overwhelming or intimidating. As I look back on my time with the Robisons I realize that if I had given into my feelings of self doubt, I would have missed out on a really special experience. Not only with Trevor but with Luke and Lydia too. I have so many pictures of them on my phone it isn’t even funny! And Kate has become a really good friend to me too. She talks to me about friends and life and gives me good advice on things. I realize that what started out as ME helping THEM has turned into THEM helping ME. I have learned a lot and have gotten to enjoy friendships that I wouldn’t have had if I didn’t go out of my comfort zone.

 

One of the best scriptures about ministering to the One is found in Matthew chapter 18 verse 12:

 

“If a man have an hundred sheep, and one of them be gone astray, doth he not leave the ninety and nine, and goeth into the mountains, and seeketh that which is gone astray.”

 

I think every one of us at one time or another feels less like we’re part of the 99 and more like the ONE that is lost. It’s easy to overlook opportunities to smile at someone, or give a complement or write a nice text or comment on social media because these things may seem small and insignificant. But I can tell you that during times that I am feeling lost or alone those seemingly small and insignificant things have a powerful impact on me.

 

My mom recently started doing this thing where she would put a little treat and a note on mine and my brother’s beds for us to find when we got home from school. I know that she does this because she loves us, but I also think it might be because she’s glad we are back in school J I noticed that some days instead of a little note like the rest of us, one of us would get a longer more heartfelt note. I asked my mom “why did you write Jake a longer letter and not me?” She explained that it was because she knew I had had a good day but that Jake could use a few extra words of encouragement. And sure enough a few days later, when I was having a rough day, I was the one with a long letter of encouragement waiting for me on my bed.

 

When we are looking for opportunities to minister to others, it doesn’t always need to be fair or equal. There will be times that some need our help more than others. It is ok to focus our efforts where we know they are needed most.

 

I am grateful for the opportunities that I have had to minister to others and for the blessings that have come into my life by trying to be more like my Savior. I am also very grateful for those that have made efforts to minister to me.

 

I have a testimony of the truthfulness of the Gospel and especially of the Book of Mormon. I have felt it’s influence in my life and it helps me to know what to do in difficult situations. I have felt confidence in my choices as I strive to live by it’s teachings, even when it is not always popular. I know that as I draw closer to my Savior and continue learning more about Him, I will not fail.

 

I say these things in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen